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Wednesday 31 August 2011

Abortion Is Anti-Family

If you look beyond the horizon, you will beleive that abortion is one of the actions that is more prevalent among our teenagers or adolescents. This practice is in fact global. A 2007 global study said that in 2003 alone, there were an estimated 42 million induces abortions globally. Those women who have abortions come from all races of world countries, no nationality is exceptional; in fact, from a variety of religious backgrounds, from any level of income, education as well as age between puberty and menopause. Some women, when they were facing an unwanted pregnancy, they often choose abortion. Their reasons for choosing abortion is indeed vary, ranging from financial problems to a failed, may be abusive, relationship that results in their not wanting any further ties with the man, some of them count it as a disgrace to the family, even themselves. Or the pregnancy may simply not fit into the plans of both- teenage boy and girl. Like it implied above, they choose abortion to protect their reputation. This was true of the case reported on by  One Doctor Susan Wicklund in her book titled "THIS COMMON SECRET- MY JOURNEY AS AN ABORTION DOCTOR" one of her patient who was seeking abortion said clearly by confessing, thus " if i have a baby out of wedlock, it will be a disgrace on them (refering to her family as a whole)". If those who are curretly proposing an abortion were moved by the words of this young lady, why didn't they shun pressure?, why didn't they avoid casual sex? However the situation might be, terminating pregnancy deliberately or intentionaly is not at all easy, it is painful and dangerous. If fact, it destroys womb. CONSIDER ITS RESULTS. A research studied in the year 2004 revealed that half of each group of about two hundred and seventeen (217) American women and three hundred and thirty-one Russian who had am induces abortion regretted after the abortion. Approximately 80 percent of American women and 50 percent Russian Women felt guilt over the procedure. Why do so many women still have abortion, even among those who do not view themselves religious.                
This regret often centres on the question- " did the abortion put an end to a life that already lived?" A report by the South Dakota ( a state in the USA) Task force to study abortion concluded that many pregnant women considering an abortion "were misled into thinking that nothing but TISSUE was being removed, and relate that they would not have had am abortion if they were told the truth". Some of these women who have had an abortion are angered by grief at the loss of a child they were told never existed. Psychological harm of knowing the fact that they killed their child is commonly devastating. One study in 2006 revealed that half of 100s of women who became pregnant as a teenagers gave birth while the other half had an abortion. Another report provided that the result of 4 largest record based studies in the world- it says:- women with a known history of abortion experience higher rates of mental health problems of various forms when compared to women without a known abortion history. THE ACTUAL TIME WHEN THE LIFE OF HUMAN BEGIN. The development of all the part of embryo begins at conception, when  the oven or the cell of egg of the woman meet and fertilized by a sperm cell of the man. Some modern advances in technology have enabled scientists to observe the astonishing changes that take place in the nucleus of this single-celled fertilized egg. The molecules making up deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA). These control virtually everything about us. They determine our height, features of facial, hair and eye colour and the remaining of other traits. As the previous cell  divides, the complete genetic BLUEPRINT is duplicated into every new cell. Amazingly, each of these is programmed to develop into whatever kind of cell is needed. Brain cell is included, the hearth tissue, skin as well as transparent tissue for our eyes. "The human being is fully destined for the growth and development of human  for his entire life at one cell age" this was reported by one Doctor David Mark a prominent molecular biologist. He also said that there can no longer be any doubt that each human being is totally different from the very beginning of his or life at fertilization.      
A five week old human embryo is not a mere piece of tissue; it has within it the foundation for all the organs of  a grown person. From the time of conception in the womb, the child is not just another part of the even mother tissue, but a person on its own or seperate person. Her body views it as a foreign object. It would be quickly rejected were it not for the PROTECTED WORLD created in the womb of mother. This new human life is a person with a unique DNA fingerprint; it was also seperated from the mother by protective housing. Some arguement says- body of human spontaneously aborts many fertilized eggs for abnormalities' sake, then why shouldn't a  doctor be able to abort pregnancy? This is not a rhetorical question; it must be answered in affirmative because it is pertinent. There is still a big difference between spontaneous death and deliberate homicide. Report from  a Latin American country said that seventy-one out of one thousand children die within their debut year. But just because so many die prematurely, would it be acceptable to kill a child under the age of one? Certainly not.

              AVOID ABORTION               

  Before pornposing an abortion, there is pregnancy (unwanted) which is preceded by impetuously sexual intercoure. Although sex was designed to be pleasurable, it is not a wise idea to run into it before marriage. A pregnant teenage girl who was considering an abortion  in my area gnash her teeth when she was shown a sonogram of the mine-week old child within her. She dropped the idea of  an abortion instantly; she refused to terminate the existence of seperated living thing in her womb. Now, that very child was her only son, in fact her only hope of success. Terminating an unwanted pregnancy is immensely irritative, it is a future lament especially if one is watching un-aborted contemporaries of her aborted pregnancy. Do abstain from illicit sex and let us save our youngs and fruits if it has happened.    

How To Overcome Problems That Damage Family

If one would be honest, alcoholism is one of the major factors that
damage family. Can this problem be solved and how can it be solved?
Come along with me.
 One famous book long ago indicated that misuse of alcohol can disrupt
family peace. The corrosive effects of alcoholism are felt by the
entire family. The spouse may become absorbed in efforts to stop the
alcoholic's drinking or to cope with his (alcoholic as a male)
unpredictable behavior. She tries concealing the liquor, throwing it
away or hiding his money and appealling to his love for family, for
life but alcoholic still drinks. As an effots to control his drinking
meet with repeated failure, she feels inadequate and frustrated. She
may start to suffer from guilt, anxiety, nervousness, fear, even
anger.
 Children also are negatively affected by parent's alcoholism.
Frequently their ability to trust others is shattered by the
alcoholic's inconsistent behavior. Because they cannot comfortably
talk about what is happening at home, the children may learn to
suppress their feelings, often with harmful physical consequences.
Those children may carry this lack of self confidence right into
adulthood.
 Some people and many authority agree that alcoholism cannot be cured,
most agree that a measure of recovery is possible with a program of
total abstinence. Getting an alcoholic to accept assistance is easier
said than done, since he usually denies that he has a problem.
Nevertheles, when family members take steps to deal with the way the
alcoholism has affected them, the alcoholic may begin to realize that
he has a problem. One physician with experience in helping alcoholics
and their families said that the most important thing is for the
family simply to go about their business of living in the healthiest
way they can. The alcoholic more and more gets confronted with how big
the contrast is between him and the rest of the family. But if there
is an alcoholic in your family, you must consider some principles that
have helped families to deal successfully with alcoholism.
 Do not feel that you must always shield the alcoholic from the
consequences of his drinking. Let the alcoholic feel the effects of
his drinking. Let him clean up after himself or call his employer the
morning after a drinking episode. Do not hesitate to rely on
companions for support. Talking with others who understand the problem
or who have faced a similar situation may provide you with practical
suggestions on what to do and what not to do. Be balanced, then speak
with those people you trust, those who will protect your confidential
talk. One thing is obvious, there is a solution. Till next time,
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